Thursday, October 28, 2010

I just congratulate the wrong person..

To make things short..a friend told me last week that she already engaged. .Well, not thinking that she might finally meet someone else, I bumped to her recently ex-BF and congratulate him for the engagement. Silly me for not asking, but I swear, they were still together last month! And to engage with other person ? Hmmm…

I didn’t ask for detail, but yea things happen. Maybe they just not meant to be together? Or maybe there’s a change of heart, well not me to judge.

She said :  A man can be a fantastic boyfriend, but they can’t be a great husband. You can go to the club together, laughing, crying together, plan beautiful vacations..but in term of responsibility and long term planning, they sometimes failed. They can't lead the ship.  Marriages need a commitment, good planning, and a husband as the captain. He can be a lousy boyfriend, but a great husband.

I can't believe its come from her mouth, well to consider several things lah ..He he..But people grew up, and they get matured, they know what they need. So yea, she left her BF for 4 years and engaged with her friend for 2 years.Wish you all the happiness in the world friend!

4 comments:

Tina said...

You congratulated the wrong guy? Haha Tata, that's life. Happened to me too. Someone assumed I was married to so-and-so. Salah org bah! But like your friend said, a great BF may not be a good husband. Same applies to girls, of course.

dopeymooke said...

" A man can be a fantastic boyfriend, but they can’t be a great husband. You can go to the club together, laughing, crying together, plan beautiful vacations..but in term of responsibility and long term planning, they sometimes failed. They can't lead the ship. Marriages need a commitment, good planning, and a husband as the captain. He can be a lousy boyfriend, but a great husband." -----> THIS RINGS TRUE TO MY EXPERIENCE...YOUR FRIEND IS ONE WISE WOMAN :)

TataJane said...

Ms tina - yea..i am strongly agree it applies to both male and female..heheh...

Gracie : I wonder when she become that wise..hmmmm....need to check which guru she follow :P

Kay Stanford Jr Kastum said...

Is it the same when you congratulate someone that she is pregnant when she's not?

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