The Impossible people?

Most people with personality disorders have what is sometimes referred to as "disorders of the self," because they often don’t believe that there is anything wrong with them. They think, “This is me,” or “This is the way I have always been,” and self-preservation makes them want to stay that way.

Mostly you will have to agree on everything, and well eventually, you will grow tired..and tired and give up. And it will always be your fault when you try to discuss or talk about something, which you really want to scream on their face or maybe learn some martial arts and do some exercise with them!


Here are some good guide to deal with impossible people:

Understand that it's not you, it's them. This can be surprisingly difficult, considering that impossible people have complete mastery of blaming skills. If you're dealing with an impossible person, you're probably being told on a regular basis that every conceivable thing is your fault. It isn't. As the saying goes, "It takes two to tango." Chances are, the more often they blame you, the more they themselves are actually at fault. Keep in mind that this is not to be used as a way to blame them. Blaming is what impossible people do, and they do it well. Instead, you are only facing the facts, for your own sake. That being said, here's a simple way to tell: If you accept responsibility for your own faults and resolve to improve yourself, it's probably not you. Remember, impossible people can do no wrong.

Defuse them. Stay calm, and don't spit angry words at them, whatever you do don't cry - this will only stimulate them to do more of the difficult behavior. Try ignoring them. Try looking away or starting another conversation, with a totally different topic. Find something you can agree with or praise them for. Do not, under any circumstances, join them in bashing, blaming or complaining. Do not bad talk to their face or to anyone else because then you are sinking down to their level. Add something positive. Redirect by focusing on something, anything, positive in the situation or in the conversation. Whatever you do just stay calm!

Be the opposite of them: a possible person. Live as an example of tolerance, patience, humility, and even some kindness (as difficult as that may be)--because these are all the things that the impossible person is not or not very good at. We are all influenced by the people in our environment--they don't have to be perfect all the time and neither do you. Give respect because you are human. If you don't receive respect, that's -sadly- their problem. Give understanding, and you get understanding. Ultimately this sort of behavior is probably the only thing that might possibly get through to them. They may not change in everything, but you can safely expect a change.


And yea...when you really tired..and giving up...because they are IMPOSSIBLE person!!


Understand that eventually, you and the impossible person will have to part ways. Whether they are a friend, a boss, a parent, even a spouse, the time to leave will eventually manifest. Maintaining a relationship with an impossible person is, literally, impossible. If you can't (or won't) make a physical departure immediately, make a mental one. In your mind, you've already left the relationship. The only thing left to do is wait for physical reality to reflect that fact.

A humble prayer to Raja Azman

I am so sad and touched, with the news Raja Azman, son of Raja Petra now in Sungai Buloh Hospital for....Read it all here people..


He did has went through a very hard time during his custody. Some politic issue has made a human being swallow a razor blade? (oh sorry, i shouldn't have said things before the Police announce it...my apology )

A humble prayer from one of the people to Raja Azman, really touch my heart. May we all, who love the Truth pray together in our own way:

I ask the Almighty to send His angels to protect and keep Raja Azman safe.
Please protect your humble servant that he may serve your will.
Lessen his hurt and pain. Heal his injuries. Make his strong in spirit.
Bless and keep Raja Azman in your arms against these enemies.
I make this prayer to you Almighty.
Amin.

Where does the saying “once in a blue moon” come from and what does it mean?

The expression “once in a blue moon” means occasionally or rarely. For example, a less-than-active person goes to the gym once in a blue moon. The term “blue moon,” however, has had many different meanings over the centuries. Its usage can be traced back to a 1528 text in which it described something absurd. The term then evolved to mean never.

It is believed that at some point in the 19th century, “blue moon” took on a literal meaning: when dust from volcanic eruptions and/or smoke from forest fires in the air made the moon appear somewhat blue. These were fairly rare occurrences, hence the term “once in a blue moon” – the meaning of which has not changed.

Many people today believe that a blue moon is the second full moon in a calendar month and is part of folklore, and that it was behind the origin of the expression. However, “this is incorrect,” says folklorist Philip Hiscock of Memorial University in Canada. Unfortunately, “the false information spread with the popularity of the board game Trivial Pursuit, whose researchers took the description from a 1985 children’s almanac, which took it from a 1980 radio show, which, in turn, took it from a 1946 magazine article – where the mistake originated.”

The 1946 magazine article’s erroneous description of a blue moon was a misinterpretation of the Maine Farmers’ Almanac’s definition of a blue moon, which described a blue moon as the fourth full moon in a season that usually had three. The article’s writer wrongly assumed that if there was an extra full moon in a season, then there must have been two in one calendar month.


Source : http://www.readersdigest.com.my

Woman marries dolphin!

I was browsing through some article on my advertising content for next month, its about 'Live Free', and i come across this beautiful old movie entitled Free Willy..The Dolphin stories.

Well it bring back my childhood memories, well i mean i watched this movie when i was only a little girl, and wow look how fast i grow..I watched it back to 1995 if im not mistaken, about 14 years back!

That's the first movie makes me really adore Dolphin, they are really cute and intelligent. So much facts about Dolphins out there which is very interesting, and you really amazed on what you will know. Thay are fun, amazing, friendly and most of all adorable!

And how about marrying a dolphin?

Sharon Tendler met Cindy (Dolphin) 15 years ago. She said it was love at first sight. This week she finally took the plunge and proposed. The lucky "guy" plunged right back.

A real stories where a true love of a woman to a dolphins...Hmm interesting...

In a modest ceremony at Dolphin Reef in the southern Israeli port of Eilat, Tendler, a 41-year-old British citizen, apparently became the world's first person to "marry" a dolphin.

I think i will put Dolphin as my main content next month! :)